Orgazmo

Orgazmo is the story of a young Mormon man who raises money for his wedding by playing a pornographic superhero on film. but that story has nothing to do with this blog. i needed a visual for the topic at hand, the all powerful orgasm.

i was listening to my favorite morning radio show (The Bert Show Q100) and a young lady contacted the show to say she had dated a dude for 5 years and never had an orgasm. WHAT THE FEEZY? i am not sure why she stayed in the relationship because i stopped listening after she said it had been 5 yrs.

i know that men can be selfish in that arena, but when do you stop protecting his feelings and tell that man what your needs are? i believe that is indicative of how most women handle their sexual situations. it is such a sensitive topic and you never want to hurt his fragile ego. but sometimes you have to say it. i remember the time that i had to let a dude know.

him: well did you.....
me: no i did not

it made him try harder and i appreciated that. it is time that we let men know that "beating it up" (literally) does nothing for us. some men need to learn the anatomy of a woman, where nerve endings are and all that good stuff. this is my attempt at a PSA for dudes. i am not sure how its coming off, but hell its my blog, so there.