tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post2754037594600543862..comments2023-08-25T08:47:41.852-04:00Comments on Black Girls Don't Date: we know within 20 seconds.......a black girl who did datehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04304106132872388139noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post-71647206286182467122009-12-14T20:09:56.025-05:002009-12-14T20:09:56.025-05:00so true! girls can tell so quickly from body langu...so true! girls can tell so quickly from body language to the way he talks to the way he dresses.<br /><br />PS: i have a friend with that "i'd hit that" shirtInside Outhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04960068915606614102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post-14153457301859383602009-10-11T14:43:14.432-04:002009-10-11T14:43:14.432-04:00WOW...I had no idea about the 6 mth thing. That...WOW...I had no idea about the 6 mth thing. That's good to know. lol.<br />As far as the female aspect, it takes me longer to determine a man's "screwability." Yes, back in the day, it would take 20 secs... but now that I put more weight on personality/intelligence, etc... I dont make that decision for a while...Kryssyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06325892567767454983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post-80979462937837163692009-10-11T09:11:36.745-04:002009-10-11T09:11:36.745-04:00I'm not a lady, but I'd like to add my 2 c...I'm not a lady, but I'd like to add my 2 cents. This rings true to me. Men know almost instantly if we'd hit. 20 seconds is an eternity to us. Maybe that last line isn't the best choice of words given the subject matter :-) For us, I think we instantly put each girl we see into one of two columns: "hit" or "no hit". If she's borderline, then she goes into the "hit" column. It's a very simplistic yet effective system. Different guys have different standards. For some, if she is genetically female, she goes into the hit column. Fortunately,some of us require more than that.Black Yodahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08398341768481482308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post-23662875569332286672009-10-09T16:51:34.793-04:002009-10-09T16:51:34.793-04:00@Curvy Jones I agree with you. I know in 20 secs b...@Curvy Jones I agree with you. I know in 20 secs but its gonna be a while before it actually happens. And then sometimes there is spur of the moment stuff. But I definitely would not build a relationship from my 20 sec attraction meter.a black girl who did datehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04304106132872388139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post-51470630570142233642009-10-09T14:10:21.522-04:002009-10-09T14:10:21.522-04:00Takes me a lot longer, but I'm ultra conscious...Takes me a lot longer, but I'm ultra conscious and conservative. Six months though sounds about right, especially if you're both adults and know what you want. It shouldn't take 2 years to decide if he cares for me enough to want to make a commitment.Curvy Joneshttp://diaryofcurvyjones.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post-74667437377366889162009-10-09T12:41:47.636-04:002009-10-09T12:41:47.636-04:00I agree! females can look at a dude and can tell i...I agree! females can look at a dude and can tell if she'd hit it or not. <br /><br />LMAO @ "when they start talking" ohhh that gets me everytime too! So damn cute but so damn STUPID! *sigh* I mean can I get the whole package? maybe not in 2009 lol <br /><br />its either that or they have some serious 'baggage'. I know the kids can't help if they're here but DAYUM does damn near everyone have children? I'm only 25 and they look at me all wild eyed because I don't have children. Ummm maybe because I was being RESPONSIBLE and not just doing "the grown up" all nilly willy <br /><br />good to see you posting again :D <br /><br />-thehoustongirlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com