tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post790305176889656404..comments2023-08-25T08:47:41.852-04:00Comments on Black Girls Don't Date: On the road to abnormality......a black girl who did datehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04304106132872388139noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post-20326361826667151262009-05-03T04:46:00.000-04:002009-05-03T04:46:00.000-04:00Funny, my mom had a similar talk with me, but inst...Funny, my mom had a similar talk with me, but instead of sending me away, she opted for taking me in front of the house and beating my ass in the middle of the street for everybody to see. Needless to say, I stayed a virgin for a LOOOOOONG time lol<br /><br />The man who thinks that a successful, never married, childless woman in her 30s is abnormal...not the man for me.<br /><br />I've read a few blogs written about women who focused on academics and career during their 20s and suddenly looked up and we manless/childless in their 30s...I've heard it so much that it sounds like it's becoming the normsugahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12023528077518377480noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post-41670397968675948602009-04-22T13:30:00.000-04:002009-04-22T13:30:00.000-04:00Its not really bs. I mean there is a certain age w...Its not really bs. I mean there is a certain age where women cant have kids. And i havent met any women that are wifey material that dont want kids cuz most men do at a certain ageAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post-15310695496586107962009-04-17T20:00:00.000-04:002009-04-17T20:00:00.000-04:00It looks like I've stumbled onto a group of manles...It looks like I've stumbled onto a group of manless, successful ladies. Jackpot! I need to start taking names and numbers :-)<br /><br />That's quite a conversation to have about sex at 9 years old. Still, the talk between the two of you could have been worse:<br /><br /><br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xuJ8uYGQk2gBlack Yodahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08398341768481482308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post-16860647996557557082009-04-13T08:54:00.000-04:002009-04-13T08:54:00.000-04:00I'd like to be married sometime in the next 5 to 1...I'd like to be married sometime in the next 5 to 10 years I reckon.<BR/><BR/>So by the time I'm 35 I'd like to have started a family, bought a house, started a business or two, etc. <BR/><BR/>I don't know how much age and all that matters to me in this regards, as long as those above requirements are shared between a woman and I, I'd think that would be all that matters. Maybe I'm in denial, I'm sure yall will let me know.MDUBBhttp://aaadub.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post-11171898650502977682009-04-10T10:59:00.000-04:002009-04-10T10:59:00.000-04:00@ AdeWhen I grow up, I want to be like you!!!!@ Ade<BR/>When I grow up, I want to be like you!!!!a black girl who did datehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04304106132872388139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post-89239596255403223972009-04-10T09:45:00.000-04:002009-04-10T09:45:00.000-04:00Well... Welcome to my world. Let's add to that e...Well... Welcome to my world. Let's add to that equation - single, never been married, no kids, good job, have 2 degrees, own my car and my house and am not in financial peril. SO... I am clearly unmarriable.. HA! <BR/><BR/>Even a very popular book that is all the rage right now says that I won't get a man because he won't be able to see where he fits into my world because I have it all down.<BR/><BR/>This whole thing is a mess. I would think that a man would be happy to have no drama and no burdens but the men I have run into lately have definitely opted for the woman with kids, drama, and needs. <BR/><BR/>I want a man but don't NEED one and if that will keep me single the here's to the SINGLE life.<BR/><BR/>Ladies, don't let that lable get you twisted. Handle yours and enjoy yourself and if he can't hang then he ain't the one!<BR/><BR/>PEACEAdehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07866639136400086914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post-45856929964955621812009-04-08T09:27:00.000-04:002009-04-08T09:27:00.000-04:00I think it's some bullshit...not your blog...that ...I think it's some bullshit...not your blog...that idea of having children and being married by a certain age.<BR/><BR/>I HATE how people force others into a box in an effort to make themselves comfortable...I will never understand why others deem it necessary to judge people based on these things. Could it be that maybe that 30+ woman doesn't even LIKE kids? Or maybe she's gotten proposal after proposal but didn't feel the need to accept because she knew that wasn't the man for her? And she's in the wrong because of this???<BR/><BR/>I know SO many women who should have NEVER had kids NOR gotten married but they did it to appease others and I think they need to be sat in a corner somewhere and told to reevaluate their thinking...not the women who are actually making the best decisions for THEMSELVES.AssertiveWithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07812269031321625818noreply@blogger.com