tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post8092869091498398884..comments2023-08-25T08:47:41.852-04:00Comments on Black Girls Don't Date: Pausea black girl who did datehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04304106132872388139noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post-21342459619398522842008-11-01T19:52:00.000-04:002008-11-01T19:52:00.000-04:00i had a period of my life when i was single-phobic...i had a period of my life when i was single-phobic and it was for the exact reason you stated : "because they don't have an identity", I had not a clue of who i was and was scared for some reason scared to find out, my idenity was who i was dating. i was a pitiful relationship chameleon, in hindsight it makes me nauseous knowing that was my existence.... and you know what, i ending up finding out that the real me was pretty dang on the shit, lol, scared for nothing...<BR/><BR/>great post!Naturally Alisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16587741755923221587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8284027851048756742.post-91555349845641560872008-10-18T13:05:00.000-04:002008-10-18T13:05:00.000-04:00That's some good insight and advice. I knew of a f...That's some good insight and advice. I knew of a few guys who used to prey on newly single women. They were there for the rebound faster than Dennis Rodman.<BR/><BR/>For them, it was a perfect opportunity for a hit and run. They figure she's so mixed up emotionally that they could get what they want and put it on the tab of her ex. It's like seeing a wreck on the side of the road and coming over to crack the windshield with a baseball bat. You figure insurance (The ex.) will end up taking care of it anyway. It's a rather sad, vulture-like existence, but some are happy with that. :-(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com